Name two characteristics which you admire in your mate. *
Name two characteristics or weaknesses which you least appreciate in your mate. *
Give four reasons for wanting to marry your mate. *
What are two activities (recreation, social, etc.) which you have in common? *
In what areas do I have trouble trusting others or feel insecure? *
What would you consider grounds for divorce? *
What do consider infidelity to be? *
For what reasons do you think the divorce rate continues to increase? *
What is your opinion of household duties? *
Who is to be the head of your home? *
Do you think that certain dates (anniversary, birthdays, etc.) should be remembered by your mate? *
What things would I like my spouse to do differently for us to handle conflict better? *
What things should I do differently for us to handle conflict better? *
How are we different? Do you think our differences will create problems in our marriage? *
What is your plan for settling family problems? *
Should your mate ever keep anything a secret from you? If so, what? *
Do you think we have problems in our relationship that we need to deal with before the wedding? *
Do you expect or want your partner to change? *
How quickly do I believe we should forgive each other? *
If you both have your own place, which one will you move to? *
If you do not have your own place yet, are you wanting to rent or buy a house? *
If one of you were offered a job in another state – how would that work? *
What was your your childhood like? Was your family affectionate? *
What family values and traditions do you want to bring into our marriage? *
What do you like and dislike about your family? *
What do you like and dislike about your parents' marriage? *
Are you well acquainted with your mate’s immediate family? Describe your relationship to them. *
Does your family approve completely of your choice of a mate? *
Do you dislike any of your mate’s family or friends? *
Has divorce occurred in your family? *
Which of our families have the most potential to cause problems in our marriage? Why? *